Puppy Love or Just Interest......

          As I look into my Facebook and Instagram just to view what friends and family have posted. I can't believe my eyes. There are 15 and 16 year old girls fighting for a kid that can't even keep his pants on his waist. Or seriously doesn't own a belt. Things like "that's my bae", "these bitches are crazy if they mess with my bae", "with my bae to the moon and back". What the hell are you thinking about? Are you serious? You truly believe that this kid which I believe is older than you, will stick by your side? Or why even fight for a guy? Don't you have any decency for your self?

      As a young girl you need to focus about school, family and your self. No guy (only your dad if he deserves it) in this world is that important than your education. And why even fight for a guy that does not give a crap about you. A real guy will not only defend you but also dress like one. Which now a day is really rare. Using baggy pants and huge ass clothes is not acceptable.

      But what is the real meaning of boyfriend and girlfriend? Well the word says it by itself. "Boyfriend" a boy that is your friend or really close friend. "Girlfriend" a girl that is your friend of really close friend. Oh and lets not forget "I love my bae". What the hell is a "bae"? And is it really "love" you feel? Or are your hormones all around the place? Are you just following a movie you saw and want to recreate it? No don't do it.

       I talk by experience. Yes I did fall in love in high school, and yes I was dumped pretty quick. That made me think a lot. And now that I am married and with kids, it just amazes me. This so called love you feel is just an excuse to be with someone just because you don't want to be the only one without a boyfriend. I understand you want to feel that great and wonderful experience of falling in "love". But this love you are feeling is called puppy love. Yes. So don't fall for it.

   

       And what happens is he gives you the sweet talk makes you madly fall in "love" with him. You fall for it and then POW.... "If you really love me you will demonstrate it". And that is how you end up on MTV. It's not easy going to the 11th grade with a 4 month baby attached to you. Your life as you know it is done. Because all the things you wanted to do, scholarships, travel the world. You might be able to do it but with extra baggage.

           
    Or even go to the school bathroom and start taking "selfies"? Basically the whole world knows how a school bathroom looks like. There is something called "OUTSIDE". The best place ever to take a "selfie". Had to throw that out there.

           


 So focus on education, on living a great out of this world life. Be a kid. Enjoy your family. Make them proud and focus on YOU. Don't let a guy take your dreams away.