Love

    I would like to start with a very hot topic Love. I went to Wikipedia to look for the meaning of LOVE. So this is what it gave me: Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also said to be a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection —"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another". Love may describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals. And in the Bible it says that God is Love.

    But we are not talking about this kind of love. We are talking about a love that we have for one another. A love that is sometimes real or fake just to get what we want. So I will start with what we call real love. The kind of love that will make you want each other in a way that your heart beats and you get the so called butterflies. I wrote a poem that follows:

Real Love Love is like a desire, so pleasant, it could take you to heaven or straight to hell, where you won't dwell. It's like magic as you master it, it vanishes. Starts as a flower, so lovely, ends like a snake, so deadly. It could revive you in an instant, and could kill you, in seconds. If this love is true it will take to heaven, it will never vanish, it will be as lovely as always, And it will revive you 'till the end of time.

     As it is described in my poem love is a desire that we experience when an instant attraction between a man and a woman. Or different sexes. I am no one to judge anybody. Because if this bond is strong, who gives a heck what sex you are. The male should love his significant other like no other. A woman wants to be loved, satisfied in all ways. Wants to experience this feeling like no other. When a woman feels right she will give her all. Cook, clean, give you her life as we know it. Not that a woman was created to clean after our asses. But she will give her all. There has been situations that I know of.

    The woman gives her all, cooks, clean, works her ass off, even pleasures his man like no other woman would. While the man takes that for granted and utilizes her to his benefit. Gets home and just sits back on his fat ass and doesn’t do nothing. Waiting on everything to be served and have sex whenever he wants it. What the hell man? You need to value your girl. Appreciate everything she does for you. She isn’t your slave or someone that you can use to your advantage. But is goes both ways.

     The woman also needs to value what she has next to her. A man that does his all, gives his all for his family should be treated with respect and well taken care of. But woman take advantage of this and use them. Let say they have been married for 4 or 5 years and have a child together. She will use that child to get anything she wants, even have him as a slave to pay for her high maintenance. And that man for the love he has for that child will stick to her like glue just to become the user and provider. In other words the a**hole.

      But this love will hurt you. The one that you secretly love. They become your best friend. But you hold back your emotions just because you don't want to lose what you have with them. But what hurts the most is that they have their significant other by their side. A love that will burn your soul. Cry your eyes out. Make your fingers burn because you can't touch them. But you close your eyes at night and imagine that special someone next to you. But you stop and start crying because it’s not real.

        How can we measure love? How can we say I love you more? Love is not that deep. Jealousy will give its grain to mess with your emotions. It will play tricks on you. A love that is silent will make you wonder is a world of meaningless things. Catch you by surprise and make your heart bleed. But realize that you adorn that person and willing to do anything for them. Measuring love is impossible. There is no ruler or no tape.

Note: This was written years ago. I had it on my Facebook Notes, and have decided to share it with you. At the moment I have 3 beautiful girls and I am happily married. I gathered all this information by conversations I had in the pass with different people. So if you don't feel that this is true please feel free to put in your comment.